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Letters of Support
A letter from someone who has stood exactly where you're standing — sent with a bear hug.
Sometimes the only person who can really reach you is another parent who has lost a child too. We match your request with a parent from our community who is willing to write — in their own words, at their own pace — and we send their letter to you along with a small bear hug.
You tell us a little
A short form — as much or as little as you can manage.
We find the right match
A member of our team gently pairs you with a parent whose experience is close to yours.
They write to you
In their own words, whenever they're able — there's no rush on either side.
It arrives with a bear hug
The letter comes to you together with a small soft bear, to hold while you read it.
Request a letter
This is for parents who have lost a child. Tell us whatever you're able to — there's no right way to write this.
Every request is read by a real person before we match it with a parent willing to write. If anything here doesn't feel right for you, please get in touch instead and we'll talk it through.